Generally photos of me are taken only by me. No one else. Few of them are actually public. My selfie collection is generally secured fairly tightly and kept private. These photos are of me wearing makeup and I cannot stress enough that they're not all for public consumption. The ones I do upload publicly are usually ones I did put some effort into the composition of my makeup and the photo itself.
I don't allow photos that are unnecessary, but I am flexible. You want a photo of my mug for your phone? Hell no. You want a photo because it's a special occasion? Yeah fine, one, if I like you as a family member and you don't see me daily.
I explicitly forbid photos of me from being uploaded to Facebook. Sorry, I refuse to maintain an account there and don't want my face on it. I refuse to exist on Facebook. LinkedIn (for resumes only, not photos) or Google+ only exist for my real world Identity.