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So suffering is a form of art then? 🤔
So suffering is a form of art then? 🤔
That's why I end up doing everything myself, nowadays. People might be better at drawing. But they use that skill mostly for stuff that doesn't appeal to me. <_<Changing themes and finding a proper image to throw into my signature is hard :(
The difference between the good and the bad, is how fast they get better.Nobody starts good, it's all about practice until you suck less and less.
Most people are just mediocre. It's only the few who stick out that are not. Unfortunately, we as a society kinda never figured out that instead of putting the talented people on a pedestal we should instead focus on letting people with only middling skills catch up so that society as a whole can grow. Social Media kinda has shown that again as it's very much a place to compare yourself with other people.Long live mediocrity =D
Considering that I've literally spend decades trying to get better at art and others who spend like a year are still very far ahead of me; that really says a lot about how good I am, huh? :(The difference between the good and the bad, is how fast they get better.
I'm good at mathematics but not at... well, basically anything else. 😅
The difference between the good and the bad, is how fast they get better.
I'm good at mathematics but not at... well, basically anything else. 😅
I feel you :(Considering that I've literally spend decades trying to get better at art and others who spend like a year are still very far ahead of me; that really says a lot about how good I am, huh? :(
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I think it's being in an appropriate environment in general would be good. I liked to do it in school a lot, but during that time you have all the time and people you could want. Then life got in the way and after that I was stuck alone for a couple years and had absolutely no motivation whatsoever to do anything. And now I'm just stuck with spending most of my day with work related things or trying to sleep. And what's left I don't have much motivation to do anything. ^^"I feel you :(
Maybe you need someone to teach you? Join some classes? I don't know if something like an "art coach" does exist?
Basically I am the type of guy who needs to be taught up to a certain point. When I say I'm not that smart, it's because I've noticed that this certain point was farther for me than for most people. In other words: I need a lot of teaching before I can handle things alone, in almost all aspects of life.
Currently I'm having a hard time on League of Legends because I find it hard to learn everything without someone teaching you (+ the game doesn't help you start anyway) so I'm considering online coaching.
Maybe that's the same for you and art ^^"
I agree for the most part.
I would add that your genetics / childhood environment define your potential, and if you work on that potential you'll reach your limit, and if you don't you'll be stuck at the bottom limit. This is something you see in sports, I believe it's the same elsewhere.
I think it's being in an appropriate environment in general would be good. I liked to do it in school a lot, but during that time you have all the time and people you could want. Then life got in the way and after that I was stuck alone for a couple years and had absolutely no motivation whatsoever to do anything. And now I'm just stuck with spending most of my day with work related things or trying to sleep. And what's left I don't have much motivation to do anything. ^^"
And the people I have to associate with irl aren't exactly the people I like conversing as they are very self centric in nature and don't care about anything that doesn't make sense with their logic. But even quitting my job won't make things better as I will definitely just fall into the same situation that I was in before. ^^"
I think you're confusing causation and correlation there.
It's less that not practicing during your youth will cause you to be stuck at bottom limit and more that athletes are usually selected during their childhood, which means that most athletes you see know will have practiced and devoted themselves to the sport for an early age because of the selection process.
In sports this selection is usually formal because there is a peak physical condition of the human body and you want to condition the athlete as much as possible before that (but even then, it's not the only way. There are plenty of famous athletes that only started their sport in late teens or university or even later than that).
But, like I mentioned in another post, being "good" sets up a positive feedback loop which is, in itself, an artificial form of selection. A structured environment helps of course, and setting that environment as soon as possible helps even more, but doing something from childhood isn't the only way to progress in any given field.
And loath as I am to sound like an Instagram coach ... if you convince yourself that you're fundamentally limited then you will be. Stop comparing yourself to others (or even to yourself in a small timescale), take a more active course in your learning (for example, start reading some math books and watching match classes online or start looking into different art concepts like anatomy or lighting) and you'll find that in the long term you will find results.
It just takes time.