virginity

The Dark Avenger said:
From the questions asks on here, I sound angelic myself.

But, if you were to ask how many times, in general, I have done the deed...

That number is well over 500 (who can keep track after 10?)
Number of partners: 1

Just to clarify if anyone is calling into question my 'sperience and skillz. I gotz them. (Or at least I like to think I do.)
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One guy got to have sex over 500 times? Damn, all I have to say to that guy is...

[PokeCommunity.com] virginity


Aaaaand that's everyone else hitting me for being such a guy.... >_>"
 
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Are you a virgin?
Yes

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?
Preferably after marriage. If you're not ready to handle a baby, don't do it. "Protection" doesn't always work! However, I wouldn't be too grossed out at others unless people are under age 16 or so.

If you are a virgin are you waiting for marriage, the right person, till you're older, or has it just not happened for you? Not interested? Add anything else.
Waiting for marriage. Also there hasn't been anyone in my life that I would really want to do it with anyway.
 
Kanzler said:
ROFL gif. i guess monogamy and going steady has its perks :P
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I'd figure it was normal :x I'm a friggin' bunny rabbit with my guy. Two to three times a day is normal. Not at all is very rare. Sometimes he gets so much he tells me it's "too much" and there's nothing left lol!

So again, not a virgin, between the two guys I've had I've probably done it over a thousand times (at seven years, that doesn't amount to much, but half of it was long-distance). My current guy, I've been with him for about seven months now, and I only see him maybe eight days a month or less (he's at school in a different city). We've easily done it a hundred times already (I had like, ten boxes of condoms at one point and they're almost gone lol! plus the ones he had in his drawer), probably more for the times where I spent 1-2 weeks down there. Wasn't too often, but I think he's doing pretty good lol

Definitely can't complain, since I do other favours for him too :P and that's on top of intercourse itself.

I content myself with him being satisfied; it makes me feel pretty, really lol

Just glad he's faithful himself. Two peas in a pod :)
 
I'll also say, I wasn't happy. At all.

I have been more satisfied in the past year as a celibate male. (I have been so for three years almost)

I think at times certain chemical responses make us feel good for a moment, but this feeling is ephemeral and can potentially clout our perception of what a relationship is. Even though I would say I am a proponent for regular sex in monogamous couples tends to be beneficial. Though, I have since learned that more reverence to courting can be of benefit in order to avoid mixing sexual pleasure with romantic/emotional prosperity.
 
Same as Bellydandy, I see my girlfriend everyday and her siblings are at school when I arrive at her place. So yea 8)

Plus I've been with her for 4 years now, so you can do the math 8D
 
4 years, that's around 209 weeks, 1461 days, 35063 hours, 2104000ish minutes, or 126200000ish seconds?

i did the math ok gib me a condom cookie
 
Kanzler said:
4 years, that's around 209 weeks, 1461 days, 35063 hours, 2104000ish minutes, or 126200000ish seconds?

i did the math ok gib me a condom cookie
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Hmm... So let's calculate. Eight days for seven months = 56 days.

Let's add an extra forty for good will. I did spend a lot of extra days over the months for time off, vacation, around my birthday, etc.

So given that we've done it at least 100 times, that evens out to once a day + other "favours" :P I don't know much about others' lives, but I'd guess he's pretty lucky. Wait till we live together rofl :PP

Then minus all those days I was on girl time :( probably ends up to more like 1.5/day+extra
 
I don't believe that it's the marriage per se, most of the time it's because of the development of a family, more chores to do around the house, taking care of the kids and everything else. So at night you're exhausted more than anything and just want a good night sleep.
 
LilJz said:
I don't believe that it's the marriage per se, most of the time it's because of the development of a family, more chores to do around the house, taking care of the kids and everything else. So at night you're exhausted more than anything and just want a good night sleep.
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Yeah, especially for women. If you're too stressed out or sidetracked in any way, you just can't force yourself into the mood. Looking at a guy doesn't just make it go away because they're attractive or special or anything. There were many times with my ex that, though at the beginning I was the bunny I am now, working too much, being stressed for bills and stressed because he was having psychotic episodes, that it literally was limited to four times a month maybe. It was pretty bad.

I think they did studies to show that ambiance and environment, stress, etc. are ultimate factors for women compared to men. And from my experience with men, it's anytime, anywhere, sad, sick. Doesn't matter. They'll do it regardless. Women just aren't the same way. I can't just kick stress or discomfort to the curb and just do it anyway. I won't be "physically prepared" for it and it just won't work lol

And I have tried doing exactly that. Down there actually goes into auto-reject. To put it PG13, it won't "fit" whether I want it to or not. Kinda interesting. I get the feeling it's like a physical anti-rape, seriously o_0 but I doubt that's the actual biological reason.
 
Belldandy said:


Yeah, especially for women. If you're too stressed out or sidetracked in any way, you just can't force yourself into the mood. Looking at a guy doesn't just make it go away because they're attractive or special or anything. There were many times with my ex that, though at the beginning I was the bunny I am now, working too much, being stressed for bills and stressed because he was having psychotic episodes, that it literally was limited to four times a month maybe. It was pretty bad.

I think they did studies to show that ambiance and environment, stress, etc. are ultimate factors for women compared to men. And from my experience with men, it's anytime, anywhere, sad, sick. Doesn't matter. They'll do it regardless. Women just aren't the same way. I can't just kick stress or discomfort to the curb and just do it anyway. I won't be "physically prepared" for it and it just won't work lol

And I have tried doing exactly that. Down there actually goes into auto-reject. To put it PG13, it won't "fit" whether I want it to or not. Kinda interesting.
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I can attest to the truth of your words. But there is something that you may not have been privy to... Some men (most to be all out honest) have two ruling brains. Shoulder brain, and the mighty pants brain. I've even heard it said that we don't really have enough blood to run both simultaneously lol

So even when a guy feels down, and his shoulder brain is sending him signals to relax or whatever, USUALLY the mighty pants brain is still up (no pun intended) and ready for totally random action.

I know. How crude and primitive. But think about this ray of hope.

It is very possible with training and looooots of practice to shift control of blood flow between either brain... AT WILL! What does this imply? Maybe males are just to lazy to fight pants brain 90% of the time. I know I am.

Peace

Edit: Live long and prosper.
 
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physical anti-rape LOL. this thread gets more and more spectacular

There doesn't seem to be all that many waiting for marriage. And that's surprising to me.
 
Sage Ebock said:


I can attest to the truth of your words. But there is something that you may not have been privy to... Some men (most to be all out honest) have two ruling brains. Shoulder brain, and the mighty pants brain. I've even heard it said that we don't really have enough blood to run both simultaneously lol

So even when a guy feels down, and his shoulder brain is sending him signals to relax or whatever, USUALLY the mighty pants brain is still up (no pun intended) and ready for totally random action.

I know. How crude and primitive. But think about this ray of hope.

It is very possible with training and looooots of practice to shift control of blood flow between either brain... AT WILL! What does this imply? Maybe males are just to lazy to fight pants brain 90% of the time. I know I am.

Peace

Edit: Live long and prosper.
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I find this comment insulting. But continue to use this stereotype, if you want.
 
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Kanzler said:
physical anti-rape LOL. this thread gets more and more spectacular

There doesn't seem to be all that many waiting for marriage. And that's surprising to me.
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Yeah, I don't know what to call the phenomenon. I can't even say if others have experienced it. It won't even let you in there lol
 
Sage Ebock said:
I've even heard it said that we don't really have enough blood to run both simultaneously lol
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That was actually just a joke made by Robin Williams. Don't know if you were being serious with that comment or not, but if blood didn't go to your brain than you would die almost instantly considering your brain needs a constant supply of oxygen. If there's no oxygen then brain damage occurs, ultimately resulting in death.

Hooray for dark and morbid topics in the virginity thread yaaaaaaaaay
 
elheroeoscuro said:
That was actually just a joke made by Robin Williams. Don't know if you were being serious with that comment or not, but if blood didn't go to your brain than you would die almost instantly considering your brain needs a constant supply of oxygen. If there's no oxygen then brain damage occurs, ultimately resulting in death.

Hooray for dark topic turns in the virginity thread yaaaaaaaaay
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It's sad that this thread is so popular. Can't say I didn't expect it though; it just goes to show you how the human mind works.
 
Orpheus said:
It's sad that this thread is so popular. Can't say I didn't expect it though; it just goes to show you how the human mind works.
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Well, you keep coming back to it, so best not to judge. We're all just curious.

I'm sexually-reserved, but we're all being mature about it thusfar. No one's being vile or crude. No one's yelling out absurdities like a fifth grade health education class. Pretty harmless so far :)
 
Cool! I love Robin Williams, so its great that he said such a thing.

Now on the topic oxygen and its necessity for cerebral functions (1 min until brain cells begin to die, 3 until definite and serious brain damage) >_>

Tru dat. You speak scientific truth. But as a male, I can attest to the immense shift in my internal supplies. Be they blood flow, or hormones. It is a medical fact that chemicals get released, blood flow increases and physical heat intensifies.

@ Orpheus: It was not my intent to insult. I am simply speaking from my limited experiences. Everyone is different, and surely that is something to take into account when reading semi-absolute statements.

Also mister Orpheus, the human mind is (scientifically speaking) one of the least well understood realms. Period.

I have a theory that sex and sexuality use up an immense amount of our brains computing power, but all I have to really go on is my own experiments and theories on the matter. Please, if you find the time, pm me and enlighten me on what you perceive to be the workings of the human mind :-P

Seriously.
 
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