virginity

I lost my virginity last year at the age of 17.
I'm currently still with the girl so I can't say I regret it.
I don't think there's an appropriate age to lose it within reasoning.
If you both are willing to take the risks and it's out of love, then why not? Just take the proper precautions.
 
Haven't lost it, and I'm not making it a goal to. I'll lose it to someone who I really care for, whenever the moment comes.


As for why people put so much emphasis on the first time one has sex, well, why is the first kiss important? The first girlfriend/boyfriend?
 
At the moment, yes. I like to say I'm saving myself for a particular girl that's in another state, but there's quite a few little chicks that'd be more than happy to ♥♥♥♥ me at my high school. If the situation arises that they push themselves onto me I don't think I'd be able to handle resisting, actually. >_>
 

- Are you a virgin? No.
- How old were you when you lost your virginity? 22, aka not that long ago.
- Do you regret it? If I went back to that moment, I'd do it again without thinking it for a second, if that's a good enough answer to your question.
- How many people have you slept with? My girlfriend. Just the kind of person I am.
- Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity? Whenever you are ready and feel comfortable enough. It's not like you have to do it if you don't want to, but it's not like anything bad is going to happen either provided you take enough care.
 
I've slept with two people in the span of seven years. I lost my virginity to the first after two and a half years of being together. I honestly felt that, based on a lot of similarities and interests + moral and religious ethics, that I was going to marry him. We talked about it often enough, too, and we were both equally dedicated. Six years in, he turned into a psychopath and I had to leave him after a series of physical assaults.

If I could, I'd go back and I'd never have done any of that. I was fifteen and he was twenty-two or twenty-three at the time. Sure, the relationship lasted six years, but it didn't ultimately end in marriage (which was my goal) and thus, I felt dirty for months following the break-up for having given it to him.

My current boyfriend lost his virginity to his ex' at twenty-two a few months before we were officially together. He enjoys the fact that I know what I'm doing, but feels inadequate as a result. Him and I are even more similar + he's mentally stable + we're taking the same undergrad (he's actually graduating this year from Wilfrid Laurier). We literally talk the same, have the same expressions, the same temperment, the same dreams and aspirations. We want to live in the same spot. I have no regrets being sexually active with this individual, who truly reflects myself like a mirror. Even my father, the most anti-social and picky person in the entire world, accepts him and invited him over. He never did that with my ex', even before the physical abuse.

I'm still discontent with how it unfolded, but I do not regret what goes on in my current relationship.
 
Is this not THE most awkward topic? EVER!

The answer to this question is HELL YES!! I'm way to young for this bull.
As for the other questions I think that you shouldn't have (You know what!) outside of marriage. Though that, in part, has to do with my religious affiliation. I won't try to argue my point though, you're entitled to your own opinions, and I can respect said opinion.

Also, I never Intend to have (You know what!) I have reasons, but they are kinda personal.

My veiw of a close friend, and life, have been destroyed by this thread. Thank you thread...
 
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I'm still a virgin but I'm not ashamed of that. I'm not in a rush to have sex,but I can get why it's such a big deal. I'm just waiting till I'm married to that right person be having sex.
 
-I'm technically a virgin, but I have had a lot of experience in several other sexual acts...so I often say that I am, but I'm not.
-I was 21 the first time I did anything
-I don't regret it at all...I don't know why anyone would.
-I've done things with three different girls by this point.
-The right age just depends on when you feel like you're ready. I didn't feel like I was ready until I was an adult already, so I didn't do anything until I was an adult.
-Marriage seems like just as good a time as any to go all the way, but only time will really tell. XD
 
So I'll be that really awkward kid and just state I've slept with 7 different people. 17 when I first did it; some of them through relationships, some of them through friends with benefits. There could probably be some choice words in what to classify myself as, but I'm pretty lax when it comes to my sexual nature. I used to have this mentality where I was going to do it with just "the one," but I mean waiting all that time can just make a person go mad with impatience.

[insert obligatory #yolo remark here]
 
elheroeoscuro said:
So I'll be that really awkward kid and just state I've slept with 7 different people. 17 when I first did it. There could probably be some choice words in what to classify myself as, but I'm pretty lax when it comes to my sexual nature. I used to have this mentality where I was going to do it with just "the one," but I mean waiting all that time can just make a person go mad with impatience.

[insert obligatory #yolo remark here]
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7 is high for PC...but irl, it seems pretty average...if not below average for the early twenties.

We're just a bunch of prudes :p

Kanzler said:
hello im kanzler and im a virgin

i also have oneitis

have a nice day
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Wow, I feel stupid after I googl'd "oneitis".
 
Virgin, not really by my choice hahaha...

Seriously though, haven't had that first date, or first kiss. I'm thinking it's going to be a while.
 
Flushed said:
Virgin, not really by my choice hahaha...

Seriously though, haven't had that first date, or first kiss. I'm thinking it's going to be a while.
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Well with that attitude, obviously yeah. You just need to throw yourself out there, mate! As they say, practice makes better [:

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To answer my own question, no I'm not. I was 18 and I don't regret it. I've slept with 3 guys. I don't think there's a set right time. It just depends on you personally, although I think it's best to wait until you know it's something you want to do because you absolutely want to do it and not because you feel pressured for any reason.
 
elheroeoscuro said:
Well with that attitude, obviously yeah. You just need to throw yourself out there, mate! As they say, practice makes better [:

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...Practice?

Lol I think I get what you mean. Easier said than done though.
 
Are you a virgin?
-No.

How old were you when you lost your virginity?
-17.

Do you regret it?
-I know how in High School teens are usually sometimes pressured into it, but my first time was pretty consensual. Me and my first time ex were together for 2 years, and we were very happy. I do admit that my younger self was hoping that relationship would eventually turn to marriage because I truly felt me and my ex had something "real". The relationship ultimately ended sourly when I left for college, but there's nothing from it I regret.

How many people have you slept with?
-4 girls.

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?
-I personally feel that besides being at least 16 and up, the "right time" has nothing to do with age. Though regardless of age, I've known some girls who simply can't stand the thought of it before marriage. Even when we are attracted to each other, and I respect it. When someone is getting their thoughts and emotions in order growing up, that the "right time" is usually when you are emotionally stable enough with yourself and know the consequences of doing it.
 
Are you a virgin?

That ship sailed a long time ago, yeah.

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Sixteen.

Do you regret it?

Nope. Why regret it? Sex is a natural thing. We were safe, etc. As long as you treat it maturely, it's nothing to be ashamed of or regret.

How many people have you slept with?

♥♥♥♥, uh... Hold up, is it bad that I have to count this out?

Let's see... seven. Three guys, four women.

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?

Well, age of consent is a thing, so let's go with that.

Honestly though, the age should be whenever the person is ready and doesn't feel pressured.
 
Are you a virgin?
No.
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
14.
Do you regret it?
I definitely regret it.
How many people have you slept with?
I'll just say quite a few.
Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?
I think that you should wait until you know that you're ready and that the person you're about to have sex with is truly worth it. A right age? I don't think I know.
 
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