virginity

Flushed said:
...Practice?

Lol I think I get what you mean. Easier said than done though.
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Not really, no. Just get comfortable talking with the opposite sex and then gradually build up from there. It's simple [:
Macarous said:
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
14.
Do you regret it?
I definitely regret it.
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14 huh? Dang, that's young. Even still, I hope it wasn't forced onto you or anything like that /:
 
I'm not a very sexual person at all, so yes I am, and I really don't see the big deal. I don't even think about sex most of the time, unless it's brought up by someone else first. Though, even if I were to be deep enough to relationship for sex to be apart of it, I'd still by technical terms "be a virgin", because I don't plan to ever have intercourse with a guy. lmfao
 
Are you a virgin?
No.

How old were you when you lost your virginity?
I was 14 at the time.

Do you regret it?
In a way, yes, mostly because it's frowned upon by a lot of people. Social insecurities aside, not really, she didn't get pregnant and I think I turned out alright.

How many people have you slept with?
4.

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?
I don't believe there's a right age, but their is a right maturity level.
 
Are you a virgin? yes

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity? dunno

If you are a virgin are you waiting for marriage, the right person, till you're older, or has it just not happened for you? dunno

Not interested? dunno

To be serious for a moment, I don't care about when it happens, how it happens, and with who it happens as long as it's not one of my family members. Though I do find it funny (or intriguing, rather) that this particular topic is accruing more posts in a shorter period of time.
 
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Are you? Yes.

Right age/time? I guess 16+, although I still think that is still a bit young with all those hormones flying around and possible consequences. Maturity is the most important thing I guess, although it's fairly difficult to understand how mature you yourself are.

Reason? Well I am probably too much of a loner, so that doesn't help, and not really confident in social situations.

I also want to add that I am a bit surprised at how many people so far have said they were under 16. Guess my parents really whacked that concept out of me early lol.

I liked BonkersRider's earlier post - don't give into pressure, please!
 
Are you a virgin? - Yes

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?

I firmly believe that your virginity should be lost after you have been a virgin for roughly 166 Mercurian years...

To all of you that took the time to look that up and do the math...
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If you are a virgin are you waiting for marriage, the right person, till you're older, or has it just not happened for you? Not interested?

I have my reasons.
 
I lost mine when i was 17 to my girlfriend. I had a crush on her for about 2 years, and we had been going out for about 3 months. It was my first time but not hers. We are still together, over 4 years now, and i definitely dont regret it. Is there a right age or time? I dont think thats anyones business but each and everyones decision to make. As long as you feel comfortable and know you want to, its your choice
 
Are you a virgin?
No.

How old were you when you lost your virginity?
18.

Do you regret it?
No.

How many people have you slept with?
2.

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?
It depends on the person. If you're ready, go for it. If you're not, wait as long as you need to.
 
I'm still a virgin and I'm okay with that.

During high school, there was so much pressure to have sex but I was self conscious and therefore wouldn't want to show my naked body to anyone. Plus, there was never anyone I cared enough about to have sex with.
I got bullied in high school for being a virgin and that got me down quite a bit but now I'm glad I didn't give into the pressure.

Now with my current boyfriend of a year and a half, I can have my first time with him. <3

I believe that age isn't really the factor, to some degree anyway. As long as you have protected sex, I don't see what's the problem of a 15 year old having sex if both sides are mature enough. However, I find that any age below 13 is crazy since that is really young. I would be amazed to see a mature 12 year old couple. xD

But in general, I don't really care unless it involves me.
 
I feel like the people who are saying they are virgins are trying to justify it or using it to be self-deprocating. I don't think anybody needs to explain themselves to anybody. It's fine to be a virgin, and it's also fine not to be.

I for one lost my virginity at 18 and never regretted it, never looked back. A lot of people regret their first time (and a lot of subsequent times also) because they weren't special enough or with the right person. That was never particularly important to me; I don't even remember the name of the guy who has mine. But we both had fun, neither of us were using each other (or maybe we were both using each other, the line is blurred). Either way, no harm no foul.
 
Nope. I am still a Super Turbo Deluxe Virgin. I haven't even had my first kiss yet. My motivation is very low though, and I probably would only end up sleeping with someone if I adored them to freaking pieces...which I do right now with an LDR so I guess one could say I am um...reserved?
 
Are you a virgin?
No. Very much so no.

How old were you when you lost your virginity?
I was 14

Do you regret it?
You cant regret a decision you didnt make. You just have to let it go. I decided for myself two months later to have sex with a guy I had grown up with and it was my decision and I do not regret that at all. I found it empowering and I didn't share myself with anyone else until I was an adult. Making the decision myself meant everything to me.

How many people have you slept with?
I actually have lost count. It doesn't average out to more than 1 per year since I was 14 at the moment.

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?
I think there is a right person that can line up with the right age or time. The connection you have with that person is more important then your age.
 
Are you a virgin?
I feel...ashamed for saying this, but nope. Not a virgin.

How old were you when you lost your virginity?
two days before turning 18. very close but I was pretty young at the time. My ex was already 18.

Do you regret it?
Definitely. I figured it was something I would have waited a lot longer than what I intended to. But we felt that our love was strong and we'd be together forever. I just...don't know how our spark faded afterwards. It's also something I have to hide from my family because I don't want them to know, and it's horrible.

How many people have you slept with?
One person, my ex.

Do you think there is a right age or time for someone to lose their virginity?
I didn't wait till a little after 18 to lose mine. But I do think 18+ is the okay age to lose your virginity ONLY if you know you are with the right person.
 
@ JDthebud and anyone else who did the math the get that reference....

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Anyhow Honestly everyone is different, and they will decide for themselves when the time is right.
 
Virgin? YES.
Why? Because every ♥♥♥♥ing girl in this country already lost hers and i need some fresh girl XD
I wanna lose mine asap, im 16 lol my cousin is 14 and he got laid more times than me...
Of course i didn't lose my virginity, i was kinda close to it but I told HER i'm not ready.
Do i think there is a right age? Yes, as a matter of fact i do, i believe you need to be 14 or older to make that decision,yes.
 
Catholic Nun said:
I feel like the people who are saying they are virgins are trying to justify it or using it to be self-deprocating. I don't think anybody needs to explain themselves to anybody. It's fine to be a virgin, and it's also fine not to be.

I for one lost my virginity at 18 and never regretted it, never looked back. A lot of people regret their first time (and a lot of subsequent times also) because they weren't special enough or with the right person. That was never particularly important to me; I don't even remember the name of the guy who has mine. But we both had fun, neither of us were using each other (or maybe we were both using each other, the line is blurred). Either way, no harm no foul.
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I would be a little concerned about that, hopefully it wasn't on some silly drunk escapade xD Even if it was though, kindove odd how you wouldn't remember his name. Especially if it was your first time.
 
Genesis said:


Why would you feel ashamed? As far as I know, sex is a natural thing.
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I'm similar in that I feel shame for how it unfolded. I was young and uneducated. I thought it was going to last, and it didn't. I wanted to save myself for the person I truly felt I was going to marry, and even after six years I tried so hard, but it would never have worked.

I felt dirty for months following that break-up because my own values told me that, though natural, I was tainted in a way that I honestly felt I couldn't hold myself in a high esteem anymore. I was dirty. I don't quite feel that way anymore now, esp. since my boyfriend enjoys my experience, but I'm still not content with myself.

For some, sex is higher than natural. I understand instinct and the basic need to procreate. My views on sex are much more, I don't know, dignified? I'm very much for "one person and only one" rather than the "testing the waters - all of them!" method.

So I kinda understand where Minerva is coming from, but I can't say the reasoning is the same. I feel similar, though.
 
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