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    How often do you tell people how you really feel about them? Are you honest about how you feel about other people?
     
    It depends. I'm usually honestly about how I feel about other people but I won't tell them "everything" if you know what I'm saying. If someone isn't close to me I usually won't tell them exactly how I feel about them because I really don't want to scare them away which is exactly what would happen. BUT, if they are close to me then I'll probably tell them what I think of them in the most blunt and sarcastic way I can.
     
    eh well it depends on the person. i always tell my bf how i feel about him so he knows that i always love him. my parents and sister i dont really talk about my feelings towards them lol.
     
    i have a bad habit of complimenting someone's character to someone else rather than to the person i'm talking about.

    it's actually gotten me into trouble quite a few times because i'd go so long without really telling someone that i appreciate them, love them, etc. they'd end up thinking i don't really care that much about them or they'd never know how much i actually feel.

    i'm working on showing my love better. :x i've definitely come a long way that's for sure.
     
    I find myself constantly doing this. I love to let people know how much I love and care about them! Sometimes though I feel like I do it too much and become a bit of an annoyance to them.
     
    I like to think I always tell people straight-up what I think about them. If I like you, I'll let you know. If I think you're an irredeemable asswipe, I'll also let you know.

    I dunno how true that is to reality though.
     
    I'm a very quiet person when it comes to compliments, appreciation, and just any form of showing that I care. I've never been good at that stuff, but I'm always honest about what I think of people, so if I say something about someone, I mean it, good or bad. But most of the time it's good.
     
    Oh god. Ima bag of dicks. ;(
     
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    Often actually. Over the last year, I've just grown to become a very blunt and straightforward person.
     
    for the most part how i feel towards other people goes unheard. I'm naturally a quiet person but when I finally have something to say it usually just goes over their heads. so the silence rarely gets broken anymore.
     
    I'm perfectly honest if someone wants to know, but I rarely if ever tell people on my own volition. My thinking is: tell me if something's up and I'll respond, but otherwise I am to assume you're fine. Likewise, I'll actively engage you if I have a problem.
     
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    I don't have a problem telling people how I really feel about them (not that I'll really say anything unless there's reason to, but.....). It's more that I don't really know how exactly I feel about most people and/or don't know how to put into words how I feel about them.
     
    I might as well answer my own question, no?

    You have to be extremely close to me to get a snip of how I feel about you. If I don't know you well, that's not easy for me to throw around. I've only, maybe, told three people how I felt about them online. If I don't know you too well, then yeah, I won't tell you how I feel about you. It's not that I don't care; I just feel like it's better to reserve to the people I feel closest to. Of course, though, I'll let you know if I think you're cool/sweet/nice, but there's very few people that I've literally said how I really feel about them. It's not a one sentence thing for me.

    And there's barely anyone I don't like, and even if I did, I won't tell you because that's mean.

    But..,I suppose if a person is down and need encouragement, I'd tell them what I think of them? I just have a hard time voicing opinions like this without feeling like I'm trying too hard.
     
    As I'm not close to anybody, I don't really am in a position to tell somebody how I feel about them. I suppose, depending on the situation, I might do so and I can pretty much decide which way I might approach as well as I can be both, pretty nice or a cynical idiot.
     
    Telling my friends how much I appreciate them, yes. Telling my crushes how I feel about them...that gets trickier.
     
    idk. I guess I'm not the best at it. I try to let the people that matter most know how much I love and appreciate them, but even then, I don't feel like I do it enough.
     
    With people here, I try to be nice and supportive to them by telling them that i'm happy to have them. But with people I can't stand, i'm not that vocal.
     
    it typically never comes up and I'm not one to just randomly be like "u r so wonderful :)!!!!!!"
     
    I'm Awesome. <3

    I have to wait for the right moment to tell them, either to make them feel better or worse. Sometimes, you gotta choose.
     
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