Do you like who you are?

Yeah, I do. There are some aspects of my personality that I'd like to change (quite a few actually), but overall I like myself the way I am.
 
I don't know how to respond to this.

I d like myself. When I was ounger, I didn't looked good and I was overweight. So now, as I look today, I am happy!!

My problem is my identity. Like, I don't really know who I am.

And when I do retrospection, I don't like how I was before, like the things I said or the things I did.

Now, I do no like how awkward I can be XD

And people around me can't believe how awful I think I am. I don't think I am a really good person. I am selfish, and I know it. I love to help others, but I don't have the energy to do it. Since I am young, I want to go away, alone, and live my little life all by myself.

I don't know if any of you have watched the show Bojack Horseman, but this resume my thoughts about myself. Not liking the way I am, but loving it in the same time. Not knowing what I do with my life, identity crisis. Or like the character Diane, thinking I was someone, but realizing that I am not who I though I was.

I think my problem is that I really know who I was in highscool and I know I am not this girl anymore. I don't know who I am, and I know I won't ever be like my teenages years. But I miss these years.
I think I lost myself when a girl wh I was in highscool with (and we are from a little place), she didn't remember my name. I realize how invisible I was. The years I thought I was the best version of my was invisible. A lot of people don't remmeber my name or don't see me, and that suck.


Anyway, that's the 20s crisis and I know it hehe, I know I am not alone feeling this way. Someday, I will find myself.
 
No. I don't. I despise everything that I am and I wish I was never born.

#crawlinginmyskin
 
No. I'd love to be able to say I do like myself, but at this point in time, I can't even fathom feeling that way. My self-esteem is so low that I barely know anyone, even online. I'm convinced that people will not like me. My mind is constantly telling me I'm worthless, and it's a pain.
 
I'm hella cute, but not very smart. So that's okay. I wouldn't want to be anybody else anyways :)
 
I like what I am trying to do, but I absolutely HATE the ways I've been going about things. Especially in the most recent weeks. It's quite a mess but that's another post for another day, or a PM more likely.
 
Nah said:
.....in all honesty, not really.


Rika pls. You have a Master's in Chemistry or something right? Yer smart and cute.
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I think I mostly just got lucky abd somehow got a degree.

But thanks, dear <33
 
I'm content. I wouldn't say I like myself, but at the same time I don't dislike who I am.
 
KetsuekiR said:
To put it bluntly, not really. There are times when I have a mood swing and I like myself and all I can do but then I realize that all I can do is very little. Everything I try to praise myself on, everyone does better. It's a hard life and I think accepting that was the only thing I'm proud of and that's a sad statement in and of itself.
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That's more or less how I'm feeling about myself at the moment. Usually I do go pass the loathing stage, but lately I'm thinking, "these people are getting more noticed with whatever they're doing" and "they're having a better social life than me" and yeah. >.>; I also don't like how sometimes I can overreact to things and my mind likes to run worst case scenarios.
 
Yes, I'm contented with who I am. Coming to terms with my fears and insecurities really helped me a lot.
 
~♥ I love myself ♥~

It's often other people who have a problem with who I am. They can take a hike in my opinion. Yes, I am human and I have my faults. I'm well enough aware of them that I don't often need reminding... Cause and effect does that job just fine.
 
Honestly, it's inbetween. I sort of do, but I sort of don't. I'm in the process of liking myself. I suffer with depression and fun stuff like that. But I'm in recovery and trying to get better. I'm happier now, but not happy with myself if that makes sense. I'm just happier in general. I do not like myself, though. I'm in the process of trying to like myself though. It takes time and effort and love from the people around you but ultimately you must depend on yourself for guidance and self love.
 
Shadow_Angel said:
Honestly, it's inbetween. I sort of do, but I sort of don't. I'm in the process of liking myself. I suffer with depression and fun stuff like that. But I'm in recovery and trying to get better. I'm happier now, but not happy with myself if that makes sense. I'm just happier in general. I do not like myself, though. I'm in the process of trying to like myself though. It takes time and effort and love from the people around you but ultimately you must depend on yourself for guidance and self love.
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When I read this I felt my heart drop. I do hope you continue to find solace in yourself and in the people that surround your life. You live with who you are regardless of circumstances, so being able to find new ways of loving who you are is a great way to push your self-esteem and boost your overall confidence. I know you can do it, keep trying!

As for me, I've always liked who I am. And let me put this out there that I'm no saint. I've done plenty of stupid and thoughtless things over the years and have had to face the repercussions of those actions time and time again. However, I regret making none of those decisions.

Instead, it's armed me with the wisdom, empathy and overall ammunition to move forward with my life.
 
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I tolerate myself, mistakes are a part of life so im not worried with those. as for my actual personality type (E/ISTP) it could be better, and it could be worse.
 
I'd like to think I'm a pretty alright. I've made horrible mistakes in the past, but I've atoned for them. I'm always doing what I can to be a good person.
I have many flaws- I'm temperamental, I can be difficult to be around, I'm always lonely... But who doesn't have baggage like that? I'm well on the way to truly loving myself. I remind myself every day that I'm doing the best I can.
 
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