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Have you ever been in love?

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    Yeah, once. It was one sided and dealing with the fallout was quite an...experience.
     

    Sannse

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    Nope. I think I'm going to be an old maid, but that's okay with me.
     

    fenberry

    Lover <3
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    I think throughout everything I've done, and what other people have done to me, to influence my opinion on love, I'm always going to keep going with it.
     

    Her

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    i love my bf but sometimes i consider whether i'm in the In Love phase or First Stage of Love phase simply because we developed emotions so fast and started dating v quickly lol
    that and i'm a little bit repressed in the emotional intimacy department tbh
     

    Bay

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    I've experienced attraction/crushes numerous times, but don't think I've ever fallen in love. Sometimes I think what would happen if my crush and I were in a relationship, but I never acted upon that because often they would be with someone else.
     

    LadyJirachu

    Fluffy and Elegant :3
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    I am/have been truly in love with my current fictional crush (Korrina).

    I know what its like to be in love thanks to her. I've shown all the signs of it :)

    She may not be real, but her impact on me is pretty huge.....
     
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    I've experienced attraction/crushes numerous times, but don't think I've ever fallen in love. Sometimes I think what would happen if my crush and I were in a relationship, but I never acted upon that because often they would be with someone else.

    This pretty much sums up my experience as well.
     
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    I am currently very much in love with my fiancé! I had relationships in the past where I thought I was in love, but actually being with someone who is "the one" feels much different than all of those other romances.
     
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    This pretty much sums up my experience as well.

    Same or they were straight or developed feelings that I haven't developed. (Aka one sidedness.)

    Longest relationship I've held so far was approx 2 months, with 1 month spent in another state because of winter break. This was like 6 years ago. Met leeches and other creeps since then...my romantic experience has been less than stellar.
     
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    Just once. She only reciprocated for a short period of time, although we remained friends for quite a while. When she stopped reciprocating I spent way too much time, energy and money (dumb, I know lol) trying to win her back. I can be pretty cold or indifferent to most people but when I really care about someone I care deeply. I'm also inexperienced and insecure so that probably led to me overcompensating and giving too much of myself which turned her off a bit and left me vulnerable. Our friendship ended over something petty and I'm still bitter about it but I grew a lot from knowing her so I try to take away the positives more than anything.
     
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    I told my girlfriend right out of the gate I wasn't in love with her when we started dating but that changed over the years. There seems to be a difference between a crush love and and a very comfortable love, and I would say that I'm comfortable.
     
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