hmm, I think I m just in the middle. I often think I don't have good memory because I forget things and especially names, birthdays and so on. However, I would say most of the time I forget things because I am not focusing enough on that kind of information. I have pretty good trouble at truly paying attention because I often always think about something else and I get distracted really easily. This surely affects "memory". In general, I often find myself having no memory of many events of the past and I often tend to forget short information like what a person studies, how old they are, their birthdays and so on. Sometimes it's also my insecurity that triggers me and makes me question many things, for example (btw this happened lol): person tells me she's 23 and turns 24 in few days. I try to memorize that but after a while I am like "was she 23 and turns 24 or she was 24 and turns 25?" and while I still kinda remember she's 23, I can't really trust my instinct on that and I get confused and end up having no idea and forgetting lol rip.